Couples Sex Therapy

For the conversations you've been avoiding.

Whether you're working through a specific conflict or trying to reconnect after years of distance, couples work can be a space to slow down, get honest, and start hearing each other again. I work with couples of every kind- married, dating, partnered, poly, straight, queer- and every stage, from freshly serious to decades in.

All the things you should know:

  • I do not, and here's why: Insurance requires a mental health diagnosis to bill for services, and relationships themselves aren't diagnosable. Working on a private-pay basis means no diagnostic label on your file, full confidentiality, and the flexibility to meet for longer sessions that insurance will allow.

  • Couples sessions are 80 minutes in length and are $225 per session.

What this would look like: Couples work at XYZ begins with a 4-session assessment (a structured way for me to get to know both of you).

  • 1. Joint session (80 min)

    We meet all together. I hear the story of your relationship, what's bringing you in now, and what you're each hoping this could look like.

  • 2. Individual session, Partner A (80 min)

    Just the two of us. Personal history, sexual history, what you're carrying into the relationship, and what you'd love to change.

  • 3. Individual session, Partner B (80 min)

    Same, for the other partner.

  • 4. Joint feedback session (80 min)

    We meet back as a couple. I share what I'm noticing, name the themes I'm hearing across the three sessions, and we build a plan together for what ongoing work will look like.

  • 5. Ongoing sessions (80 min)

    After the assessment, ongoing sessions are typically 80 minutes, scheduled at whatever cadence fits your lives- weekly, every other week, or something more custom.