Couples Sex Therapy

For the conversations you've been avoiding.

Whether you're working through a specific rupture or trying to reconnect after years of quiet distance, couples work is a space to slow down, get honest, and start hearing each other again. I work with couples of every kind- married, dating, partnered, poly, straight, queer- and every stage, from freshly serious to decades in.

All the things you should know:

  • No, and here's why. Insurance requires a mental health diagnosis to bill for services, and relationships themselves aren't diagnosable. Working on a private-pay basis means no diagnostic label on your file, full confidentiality, and the flexibility to run sessions as long as we actually need them (which, for couples work, is almost always longer than 50 minutes).

  • Couples sessions are 80 minutes in length and are $225 per session.

What this would look like: Couples work at XYZ begins with a four-session assessment- a structured way for me to get to know both of you well before we start naming a treatment plan.

  • 1. Joint session (80 min)

    We meet all together. I hear the story of your relationship, what's bringing you in now, and what you're each hoping this could look like.

  • 2. Individual session, Partner A (80 min)

    Just the two of us. Personal history, sexual history, what you're carrying into the relationship, and what you'd love to change.

  • 3. Individual session, Partner B (80 min)

    Same, for the other partner.

  • 4. Joint feedback session (80 min)

    We meet back as a couple. I share what I'm noticing, name the themes I'm hearing across the three sessions, and we build a plan together for what ongoing work will look like.

  • 5. Ongoing sessions (80 min)

    After the assessment, ongoing sessions are typically 80 minutes, scheduled at whatever cadence fits your lives- weekly, every other week, or something more custom.